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Hi, I'm Revel.

I’m a Somatic Intimacy and Relationship coach, Tantric Priestess, and Erotic Creatrix.

If home is where your heart is, I have many homes. I love to travel, whether to explore a new place or see family and friends. I’m based on the Big Island of Hawaii and loving island life! 

As a former academic (nerd alert!), I’m a sucker for passionate intellectual conversation about almost anything. I love dancing wildly, being naked by campfires, singing 90s songs at the top of my lungs, and licking the brownie batter bowl clean – preferably all at once.

As a muse of the erotic, my soul work is to help people (re)discover their sovereign power, authentically own and express their desires, connect intimately with themselves and others, and create the lives of their dreams. My approach to coaching and play bridges the spiritual and the scientific. I am at once Priestess and Coach, Goddess and Human, Shaman and Scientist

I am here to guide you from stuck and dissatisfied to confident, revved up and living a life in delicious connection to your authentic pleasures and passions.
I am here to guide you from stuck and dissatisfied to confident, revved up and living a life in delicious connection to your authentic pleasures and passions.

Specialties Include

Tantra & Sacred Sexuality

Slow down, breathe, and practice the erotic arts in the Temple of the Priestess.

Conscious Kink and BDSM

Explore your edgy desires, alchemize shame, and release trauma patterns.

Somatic Intimacy Coaching

Heal your past, attune to your present, and design the deeply fulfilling future you deserve.

Tantra & Sacred Sexuality

Curious about Tantra or Sacred Sexuality? Many of us have been socialized to feel shame sexuality about our bodies, sexuality, and desires. We are in a world that fails to recognize the potent spiritual power of our sexuality. Based on Tantric and sacred sexual teachings, Revelation Sessions are designed to help you remember and embody your innate divinity, connect with your sexual power, and channel this energy to fuel your best life. Tuning into your subtle energies, we use touch, breath, and movement to encourage the flow of creative sexual energy throughout the whole body. 

Revelation Sessions are open to people of all bodies, genders, and sexualities regardless of experience level. They can be conducted in-person or over video for individuals, couples, and small groups.

Conscious Kink & BDSM

Are you longing to explore your edges? Maybe you have unrealized taboo desires, or you’re an experienced kinkster wanting to take your play to the next level. 

One of my greatest joys is helping people explore their kinky side. In a completely open, judgement-free zone, you are invited to bring all of you—your light and your shadow. Conscious kink and BDSM allows us to experience the alchemical play of extreme sensations, archetypes, and power dynamics. These ritual play containers can open us up to new parts of ourselves, heal shame, or compel us into more integrated versions of ourselves. Whether you just want to experiment with your kinks or seek support through a big life transition, conscious kink and BDSM are powerful modalities for self-discovery and transformation.

Conscious Kink & BDSM sessions are open to people of all bodies, genders, and sexualities regardless of experience level. They can be conducted in-person or over video for individuals, couples, and small groups.

Somatic Intimacy & Relationship Coaching

Do you feel stuck in your sex life or relationship? Have questions about kink and BDSM? Want to break through shame and experience a juicy sexual awakening? Bringing together expertise in BDSM, kink, the body, sex, anatomy, Sacred Sexuality, and conscious communication, I am here to support you on your journey to self, deeper intimacy, and hotter, more fulfilling sex with 1-on-1 coaching.

Whether you are single, dating, or in a committed relationship, I help you break through shame and other blocks to your fullest sexual expression, identify and communicate your core erotic desires, navigate the complexities of kink, fetishes, and BDSM, and unlock an exciting, passionate, and fulfilling sex life. I take a unique approach to sex and relationship coaching, combining traditional coaching methods with embodied Tantric practices and kink, fetish, and BDSM play to take clients to the next level of bodily fulfillment, sexual confidence, and sensual expression. 

My coaching is suitable for individuals, couples, and moresomes!